11 months is coming and..

11 months is coming soon.. Tomorrow will be the 11months of me and my girlfriend being together..

There’s a lot of ups and downs revolving around us.. but we still manage to be together for 11 months.. It’s like a gift to me, everyday, seeing her.. She helped me a lot.. Step by step.. hand in hand.. just like guiding a baby.. She made me understand certain things that I could not understand before..

Sometimes, I got caught up with my own selfishness.. and did not think of how she felt for that moment.. Sometimes, I got caught up with my works.. and did not spend enough time with her.. Sometimes, I made her cry.. and was not able to understand her.. Sometimes, I made her disappointed with me.. and did not try to make myself better..

When I look into her eyes.. I knew she’s in pain.. she’s hurt by me.. but I could not do anything to comfort her as I’m pretty bad in that..

I’m not a guy who express well in real life.. At times, when I’m depressed, I laughed.. At times, when I’m happy, I just smiled.. At times, when I’m angry, I pulled a long face to everyone..

It’s not easy for me to just say “I love you..” and I ain’t good in saying it.. It makes me look like I’m joking when I say that.. Since small, parents never really teach us how to say “Wa Ai Lu” (I love you in Hokkien).. and I can’t imagine if I say that to my brother and sisters, what reaction they will give to me.. They probably going to spank me on my head.. It’s not easy like what you see in those movie where they always say “I love you mum..”

I guess culture does made a difference to different races and individuals..

I’m one who wish one to love me more.. and became an attention seeker.. who ask for nothing much but needing one to understand me much.. and sincerely love me..

It’s not easy to trust someone like me.. when I practically joke 75% in my life.. and used flowery language to everyone.. People usually mistaken I’m gay as when I speak to guys, I used the same language that I used on the girls..

I treat everyone around me equal.. I try not to abandon people and try not to hurt anyone close to me.. ‘cause I know how it feels when someone tried to abandon you and left you in despair..

Someday.. perhaps, someday.. more people could understand me and know who I am..

As for tomorrow, I don’t know what I can do for our 11months.. I’d been like forgetting the monthly anniversary for like.. all the time?! Even now, I remembered that it’ll be our 11months soon, but I am empty headed to think what to do next.. I guess, romance is not on my side..

I guess, I should plan for something next month as it’ll be our one year anniversary already.. but then, again, perhaps I need to ask all around what I can do to cheer her up!

I Love You.. (it’s easy for me to type it out.. ‘cause this is way of me expressing myself..)

This piece is for you my dear.. my love.. my Yuni..

 

P/S: I love you and I miss you..

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Late Posting

Well.. I know I have not been posting lately.. I felt sorry for those who always came in and check for the latest post..

It has been almost a month since my last posting.. I was too busy with my studies, assignment and entertainment.. I came back to Kuching for Raya holidays after living in Cyberjaya for almost two months.. If you would like to know how's life in Lim Kok Wing.. I'll say "LAZY"..

The reason why I mentioned it's a lazy life is because students in Lim Kok Wing really are influencing.. Imagine assignment given to you a month ago and you only do it two days before the due date.. It's terrible right? However, I had to push myself and stay conscious that I went to Lim Kok Wing to study not to play.. And my consciousness enabled me to maintain my result and performance..

Well.. that's life in Lim Kok Wing..

Let's talk about my holiday in Kuching.. As everyone is going back to Kampung for Raya and so do I.. I did different thing for my Raya.. The first day of Raya, I arrived Kuching and did a celebration for my one-month old nephew.. Aw.. he is so adorable.. Look at him!

My second sister's son (1month old)

Well.. after looking at him makes me think.. am I this old already?! Oh my god! I am an uncle of a niece and two nephews already.. I shouldn't be fooling around anymore.. I am not young anymore.. There are things that I should do..

My eldest sister's son (1month++ old)


But what's the thing?! I guess I should study well and have a bright future ahead me.. but again.. we can't predict what will happen to us next..

What happen next was I went to Damai together with my family and relatives on the second and third day of Raya.. It was fun, extreme and PAIN! For the first time in my life, I got stung by the jellyfish.. I guess it's just a small one as I only got the small lashes on my hand.. However, it did not stop me from enjoying the fun.. I continued made a sand castle and played in the sea water.. It felt a bit hot and pain at times only..

Well, I do believe in coincidence and fate stuff.. I get to meet Mr Tan, my high school's prefectorial board teacher.. He is still the same.. Nothing changed much.. I guess we are the only one who keep changing as we grow up and changes differ in time...

Anyway.. those are the fun time I had.. Ofcourse I also visited Pn Sharifah, my high school's teacher on the 3rd day too.. The best part was meeting up with my friends and chit chat with my friends and teacher.. It had been long since my last "crazy" chat with my friends..

Well, the rest of the day was not anything really special.. It's just watching movie with my friends and hi-tea together.. Not to forget my girl friend.. Aw.. I miss her so so much.. I was glad I had time to meet her up during this short holiday..

Anyway.. That's how the holiday is.. I am going back to Cyberjaya to study again.. STUDY!!!

By the way, Semester ends at 23rd November.. So we'll see Harry back in action..

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'Bye-Bye' to my beloved Kuching

Wow! Don't worry, it's just for 2 months leaving. Well, I'll be following Digi Celebriteen (DCT) as part of their crew as a full timer. We'll be touring all around the West Malaysia and East Malaysia for months. The touring includes the auditions and quarter final competition. For more information, you may refer to the official web at www.digicelebriteen.com regarding the trip.

Well, do not ask me what I'll be working as 'cause I do not know that either. I only knew that I applied to become one of the DCT crew intending to fill up my time during this two months while waiting for my Lim Kok Wing University College courses to be started.

Not knowing much about my work is kinda troublesome. Many things came across my mind everyday. Thinking of what I'll be doing there, what will happen to me, how the trip is, how much I will miss my family and my girl friend and how I'll be passing my time there.

Hoping myself not to worry too much, I just try to think the most terrible things will happen there. Well, I guess the most terrible thing there are unable to see my family, girlfriend and my close friends. Hm.. I guess this how life is..

The worst I might be is to become Yellow Coverage Fellow (YCF) which I think it wasn't too bad after all..

I'll just be the yellow guy who is next to me. It wasn't really too bad isn't it? I think he is cute, isnt he?

Well, ya, I'll try to update my blog as often as I could there but according to the schedule, it's kinda packed and if you guys wanna know where my location will be at which date, just refer to the website and that's it!

Less but not least, I'll miss you guys.. Everyone of you out there.. Especially my family, girlfriend and brothers..
I'll miss everyone of you!

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Gary & Victor Promo Tour 2007

I was glad to hear that Gary and Victor were coming to Kuching, Sarawak to make their promo tour together.. Unlikely some other place except Sabah, the tour are separated..

Eventhough Gary and Victor came to Kuching to make their promo tour, I went to see Gary's Promo Tour only as I like his songs pretty much.. There are goodies given out on the spot that day and WOW! I was able to see 988 DJ closely..

988 radio can only be tuned at West Malaysia, but we can still tune in to them via their website www.988.com.my . They were really good in broadcasting thing.. They caught into my attention when they arrive at Kenyalang Park.. They were kinda pity as they were not been told where the location is after the taxi driver sent them off.. As I knew they were going for this promo tour, I lead them way to the Kenyalang Park Community Hall..

The tour were crowded with numerous of peoples and also a cute Digi man..



I got excited when I saw the Digi fat man and I took a photo with him.. I am really a Digi supporter.. I don't really like Maxis or Celcom.. I saved this photo and put it as my wallpaper in my phone.. I laughed everytime I saw the picture..

Besides all this tour, I am proud to get the Digi-Gary limited edition keychain..



I spent RM3 to download Gary's photo as above just to get the keychain.. It's worthing as I kinda like Gary..

Sadly, I didnt join Victor's tour as I was hungry and felt hot after Gary's promo tour.. I squeezed myself in and to get a clearer view to see how Gary in real life look like.. Frankly, he isn't really tall and he got a typical look.. :)

Bah, experience it yourself if you are able to join other promo tour if you dont believe this experience.. hahaz..

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Chinese New Year

Harry is finally back in action again to update his blog..

I got really busy during the preparation of Chinese New Year and it's a relief that Chinese New Year had finally arrived. Decoration can be found everywhere in my house. Not to mention, red and golden colours are the theme for my house this year. It's a custom for chinese to place pineapple in the house because it is told to be "Wang Lai" (旺來) or prosperity.


Ofcourse, decoration won't be perfect without fireworks in the sky and firecrackers everywhere. I have to admit that there are still firecrackers and fireworks displayed in Sarawak eventhough it is banned. However, for everyone's information, chinese seldom ever get themselves injured by those firecrackers or fireworks. I can seldom ever read news about people "bombing" their own body parts just to play those dangerous things.

However, without firecrackers and fireworks, a Chinese New Year is never a Chinese New Year here in Kuching.. For businessman, playing these fireworks represent their prosperity and hoping to gain more prosperity in this Pig Year (Lunar Calendar)..


Besides that, we will never miss the Lion Dance whenever it is Chinese New Year.. Eventhough, it's quite unpleasant to listen to the noise of the drum, we still get used to the sound and in fact, we'll try to rush ourselves to see the lion dance show.. This year, my family invited people to play Lion Dance show and it's early in the morning.. The show was nice with two "Lion" playing the dance..


And now.. I guess it's time for everyone to get settle down.. Back to school and back to work and continue the normal routine as usual..

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Valentine's Day

You might be wondering how do I celebrate my Valentine's Day especially I am still single and available..

Well, it really wasn't a special day.. It's however a better day than the others.. I started off to celebrate my Valentine's Day by going for a movie with all my friends (ALL MALE).. Then, we went for a drink after that.. That's how it is.. Sounded bored?! That's the fact for a bachelor!

By the way, I received a gift from a lady (to be anonymous).. She drawed something on my hand..

So I guess.. It's a better day than the others.. As this is the first Valentine's Day I got a present (drawing on my hand)..

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Chinese New Year MOOD!

Oh gosh.. Chinese New Year is just around the corner.. There's so much preparation that has to be done.. I had been busy since past 2 weeks.. Move things and clean things daily..

For some times, I was wondering "How come there's so many things in my house" and even wonder "Why there's so many things to be done for Chinese New Year"..

However, I do enjoy cleaning things and moving things in my house although it is tiring.. During the process, it wasn't really that fun.. The greatest part of it was to see the place cleaned and tidied..

It has been a custom for Chinese to clean their house for chinese new year.. In fact this is one of the good thing for us.. We'll try to clean the house once a year eventhough we are busy as usual.. If without this occasion, you won't even want to bother to clean those "ALGAE(greenish things)" at your backyard..

However, I am awaiting for the Chinese New Year.. By that time, no more cleaning.. but only PLAYING!!

You might even wonder how come Harry had been missing in action (MIA) these few days.. The reason is he is only available freely when it's almost midnight..

From here, I would like to wish everyone a Happy Chinese New Year in advance!! ^^

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New year eve countdown party

There are just too much occasions for me these few days.. Not only my wallet is drying up but my stomach is getting bigger too.. I can't imagine to continue days like this for months.. I will sure get the throne as the fattest man in the Guiness World Record.. All I do is eat, eat and eat..

Preparing the new year eve countdown party was easy but tiring.. I had to call the restaurant to make an order for the food we ate to my house on the new year eve, cleaning up my house, making sure the P.A. system was good in shape for the karaoke session.. However the hardest part was to make the decoration for party.. It takes me 4hours to finish the wordings only..

Ofcourse, after counting down, it's not anymore a new year, that's why we burst off the wording"New Year" and left "HAPPY 2007"..

As usual, the fun part is to capture pictures as remembrances..

And ofcourse.. Not forgetting to have Harry happy throughtout the year 2007..

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Costume Party (30th Dec 2006)

Well.. Malaysia is not that trendy in having costume party.. That was one of the reason explaining why I did not have the right costume to be worn for the costume party.

The costume party was organized by St John Ambulance and it was the first time for me to attend such a party (costume party). When I knew that it was a costume party, it got me really headache to think of what costume to be worn for the party.. At last I wore a costume featuring "Hawaiian Style"..

Ofcourse, there are different types of costume altogether.. And below are pictures showing winners that won the best, romantic and wild costume..

And below are the three ladies that can kill you for looking into their eyes..

And below is a picture showing how a costume can change one gender to another..

Pictures are just pictures.. That was a fantastic night where you can see how people dress themselves for a costume party.. It is quite different from other places and other countries I believe.. Some of the winner spent a lot of money just to get their costume readied..

It depends on how you wanna dress and how you want to make a place lively..

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Photo Session

The best part of the dinner is actually taking photos with the ladies.. Although there weren't many ladies for me to take picture with, I am happy enough to be able to have photo as a remembrance with my classmate..

Me & Swee Chien

Me & Carine

Me & Shirley

Me & Hang Nee

Girley & Me

Francesca & Me

Sometimes, you will feel very glad to have ladies around.. Especially if there is more than one lady..

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Class "Farewell" Dinner

After Christmas, now what?! Well.. It's my class farewell dinner..

Although it's just a normal class dinner on 26th December 2006, I still treat the dinner as a farewell dinner.. Ofcourse, the dinner had it's own title.. It is "Kuching Town Form 5A, NOSTALGIA GIG"..

We had collected our class fund by selling our "NOSTALGIA" book and collecting sponsors.. Without the fund, it's impossible for us to have a dinner at Harbour View which cost us RM300 per table..

Above is a copy of "Nostalgia" book. Nostalgia is a collection of short stories written by our class Form 5A and edited by Richard Jong. We sold the storybook at RM6 each only.. I guess this book is a remembrance gift to every Form 5A student for year 2006 because it is a book which is written by everyone..

The dinner speciality is the big cake.. 5KG cake.. Gosh.. It's a really big cake for everyone.. Imagine my tummy is so big already after having the RM300 dinner and no more cakes for the tummy.. Instead, we take away the cake and eat it at home..

We enjoyed ourselves after having the meals.. Singing karaoke and having photo taking session.. Well.. that's the part I like the most.. Taking many many pictures.. I'll be uploading more photo after getting all the photos from my friends..

Me & Daphne

Me & 4 cool ladies!

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Merry Christmas

Although I am not a christian but I do celebrate christmas with the others.. I used to have cuntdown party for christmas with my friends and family.. However, this year the christmas was a bit different.. I had a dinner at my auntie's house and gathered with my relatives.. After having the dinner, since almost everyone had left the house, we too went back to our own house..

Me with the Christmas Tree!!

Before going back home, my cousin, Maria, gave me a Christmas gift.. I was so desperate and so happy for that Christmas gift.. I didnt expect to receive a gift this year..

That's me and my another cousin, Terrence, with an expression (Smile on the face) extremely happy with present in the hand.. To us.. Christmas is all about sharing happiness and presents!

After coming back home, some of my relatives joined us to continue the christmas celebration.. As usual, teens group (including me) had karaoke session in the karaoke room and the elders' group had their discussion in the living room cum watching NTV7 (Miss Universe 2006)..

Just before 12 o'clock in the morning (before Christmas), I had readied the Christmas song and played it out loudly and even sang together with the song.. I didnt manage to do the countdown for everyone because my handphone's time was 5 minutes delayed.. So it's like.. Having a countdown christmas without a countdown.. However, it satisfied my already as I didnt celebrate the Christmas on my own..

I, hereby, wish everyone a Merry Christmas.. May all your wishes comes true.. Ho! Ho! Ho!

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